Parents |

 What bothers YOU the most about bullying?

 Is it having an upsetting upbringing in itself?

Is it the potential stress on the brain’s functioning that may affect the kid’s abilities to learn?

Or, there is the risk of mental illness occuring later in life?

Our children spend a lot of time at school. For us as parents, it is important to know something about the school’s content and procedures, especially regarding issues that affect well-being and learning.

School and parents work for the same cause; kids should learn, and that they should have a safe, nurturing environment in school. Parental contribution to this is so important that the Ministry of Education has tmentioned it as one of four points for a good learning environment. These points are based on what the research shows is important::

  • Classroom Management
  • Pupil Relations
  • Home-school collaboration
  • Organization and leadership

Although parents are not present at school, so they have an important impact on children’s everyday life through cooperation with schools and as role models. Research shows that the quality of relationships and interactions in the home is important, whether it’s dealing with emotions, love and care. (Boethel, Martha. “Readiness: School, Family, & Community connectin”, 2004.)

The course The 5 languages og Appreciation in Class, creates good relationship and sa feeling of safety in the class, which then again improves the relationship amongst students, as well as the teacher and students. It also provides tools to create a better home environment by parents receiving test results showing what YOUR child wants and needs most from the adults at home. Filling up your teen’ or child’s «lovetank», by using their most important appreciation language will enhance the experience of safety, happiness and love both at school and at home.

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Will YOU help prevent bullying before it’s too late?

Please contact us, the teacher or the principal at your child’s school.

Question to students after completing the course: “Appreciation in Class.”


What comes to mind when we say  “Appreciated at School”?

Examples of answers:


“It has helped us a lot. It has been helpful to our class environment. And it’s been really nice to have Anita in class. “

“I think that I like Words of Affirmation and gifts best at school.”

 “A useful course to get better school environment.”

  “A course that helps you making friends.”

 “It is a course where you learn what love really is.”

“I think it makes people kinder. And then we have learned how to speak up about things. “

“It was fun and I and the others are now kinder. Very good for classes which are arguing very much. “

“I get wildly excited and happy when I think about it.”

“I think that it is fun and useful and that we can use later on in life and we become happier people.”

“It is helpful and fun to learn, because we’ll have a better school days and school becomes fun. I also love that word because you get love. “

“I think of love when I hear it. Also I feel safer.”

“I think that we should teach about our friends about the language of appreciation.”

“I think about it being fun and I’m excited.”

“I think that others should have it and you learn a lot.”

“I think that children will feel better. I think that children should be saved. “

“Love between friends. The course is fun. “


“This is a course where you learn to give love to others and to be considerate and caring.”

“I learned how to appreciate others. How to get others to feel valuable. “

“Anita comes and teaches us how to treat others, and she helps us / me find my love language. Great lessons, where we learn something out of the ordinary.”

“We have learned the 5 languages, and what I can do to make sure others have a great day.”

“If you don’t know what this is, it may seem very strange. But I think it has been very useful, because I have become more aware of others. “

“Love and feeling safe.”

“I appreciated that the course was taught in English.”

“One learns how to behave towards others.”

“I think about Anita and that we have different languages. About how to act towards others and ourselves. “

“You learn how to treat others in a good way.”

“It is a course on love and how you can learn to like others. Then you get a better environment around you. “

“We learn how to like each other better.”

“Take care of each other and show much love for each other.”